At what point in life do you give up on a friendship??? I used to have friends,, I used to have people who I could talk to about stuff in my life and they would talk to me about stuff in their lives. Somewhere along the lines those friendships have faded. I honestly dont' get why but whatever,, I know that with kids life gets crazy and we are all busy. What bothers me is just being blatantly ignored,, when I do try to make contact with people most don't even respond. I really think I am a nice person,, easy to talk to,, not quick to judge... I just don't get it! I dont even have a good relationship with my sisters,,,, we love each other and talk when we see each other but they dont confide in me.. They don't come to me for advice about anything in their lives,, and I'm the older sister! It makes me sad because I want a close relationship with them. I just dont get it.
I'm just lonely and sad that I dont have anyone anymore. I have my husband who I cant talk about everything with, and my oldest daughter who I shouldnt' talk about everything with. :( I just don't understand where I went wrong and it bums me out. I know its not normal because I hear about others who have lunch dates, dinner dates,, actually do things with other people. I sound like a big whiny mess but I just had to get this out its driving me crazy!