Thursday, December 15, 2011

Where did they all go?

At what point in life do you give up on a friendship???  I used to have friends,, I used to have people who I could talk to about stuff in my life and they would talk to me about stuff in their lives.  Somewhere along the lines those friendships have faded.  I honestly dont' get why but whatever,, I know that with kids life gets crazy and we are all busy.  What bothers me is just being blatantly ignored,, when I do try to make contact with people most don't even respond.   I really think I am a nice person,, easy to talk to,, not quick to judge... I just don't get it!     I dont even have a good relationship with my sisters,,,,  we love each other and talk when we see each other but they dont confide in me.. They don't come to me for advice about anything in their lives,, and I'm the older sister!   It makes me sad because I want a close relationship with them.   I just dont get it.  

I'm just lonely and sad that I dont have anyone anymore.   I have my husband who I cant talk about everything with, and my oldest daughter who I shouldnt' talk about everything with.   :(   I just don't understand where I went wrong and it bums me out.   I know its not normal because I hear about others who have lunch dates, dinner dates,, actually do things with other people.    I sound like a big whiny mess but I just had to get this out its driving me crazy!

3 comments:

momto9 said...

I know virtual doesn't replace the real thing but my email box is always open and i won't ignore you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jill said...

Thanks! I do think we could be good friends if we lived closer. We have a lot in common.

Dawn said...

I haven't been on to see your blog in a while.

I'm sorry that you feel that way about our relationship. I know that I can confide in you; I just don't really confide in anyone. Obviously I have been making some life changes, and I'm sorry that I haven't been more open about what has been going on with me. I know that you are supportive and not judgemental, but it has really been something I've kept to myself.

It is no reflection on our relationship or the way I feel about you. You have been wonderful and accepting and I'm glad that I got to spend New Years Eve with you.

I am always here if you ever need someone to talk to, and I know that you will always be there for me. I love hanging out with you and your family. I understand that being a stay at home mom gets lonely and if you ever need to get out of the house, just give me a call. I love you and I'm really sorry if I have made you feel like you aren't important to me.

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